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TRADING WITH A PLENTIFUL ATTITUDE
RUTH BARRONS ROOSEVELT
Ruth Barrons Roosevelt is a
Trading Psychologist who trades. She has a created a series of audio
tape sets to help traders achieve peak performance states and get
out of psychological slumps. Ray plays these tapes for his own
trading. The tapes can be ordered by calling ADEST in Sydney
Australia on + 612 9527-4690. E-mail questions to Ruth with our
contact
page>>
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At the root of many trading
problems is a sense of scarcity or a lack of belief in the abundance of wealth
and opportunity. With abundance we have more than enough. With scarcity we have
barely enough or not enough.
Successful traders have confidence that the
markets will provide abundant and recurring opportunity and that they can
identify and take advantage of those opportunities. The same is true in general
of people who are successful in life. Successful people believe that life offers
a cornucopia of opportunities and that they can identify and take advantage of
some of them.
For them it’s really a matter of selecting
which opportunities they will commit to and go after. A look at successful
traders and entrepreneurs also shows that they have been able to survive failure
as many times as they have had to. They use failure as feedback. They learn from
it and make changes and go on. Many super traders have experienced crushing loss
in their early trading years. All of them picked themselves up, and with the
sure belief that they could make it back, they did just that.
Successful traders are able to ride through
periods of draw down easily because they believe the draw down to be only
temporary. Their confidence in their methods and their ability and their vision
of what the markets can provide reassures them about their future success. Any
period of loss is only temporary.
Confronted with a draw down, a trader who comes
from lack will stop trading or change methods or systems only to junk the new
methods or systems at the next draw down. Of course, I’m not saying a trader
should stupidly keep doing what doesn’t work. What I am saying is that a trader
with a sense of abundance and a verified methodology won’t crumble under
temporary loss because she’ll know she’s simply passing through a difficult time
that will end.
I’m not saying you should like loss. Winning
traders don’t want to punish themselves, however successful traders don’t dread loss
either because they know that whatever happens, they can make it back.
Strangely enough, failure is often a necessary
stepping stone to success. Those who are too fearful of failure may never get to
the success they long for. Fear can lead us not only away from the thing we fear
however also away from the thing we seek. Ironically, fear can also lead us directly
into the thing we fear. My thesis is that underneath fear of failure is a sense
of scarcity.
Scarcity can freeze a trader and keep her from
pulling the trigger when she needs to get into or out of a trade. Can keep her
from ever trading. Can keep her researching, researching , researching until her
time and money runs out and she still hasn’t traded.
A sense of scarcity is also behind the fear of
missing out. When a trader is fearful of missing out, he can overtrade in terms
of size and frequency. He can jump the gun on a trade or force trades that don’t
fit his criteria.
Enough early or forced trades will ultimately
result in loss, thus bringing the very opposite of what the trader intended.
Fear of missing out can cause a trader to throw away good money management
principles and trade in excessively large size. The end result of overtrading
ultimately overtaxes the account and in certain cases actually leads to
financial ruination.
Because underlying the fear of missing out is
the notion that there are a limited number of opportunities, greed is produced.
Greed is based on the panicky feeling that there will not be enough. For the
truly greedy person, whether the greed is for food or money, there never will be
enough. There can’t be, because if there’s a universal scarcity, how can there
be enough?
Have you ever experienced overwhelming remorse
for a missed trade or a missed investment? Traders often report that the anxiety
and regret of a missed trade is far more painful than a trading loss. At the
core of such remorse is the lack of awareness or focus on opportunities yet to
come.
A belief in limited resources is also often the
cause of a profit ceiling, a wealth cut-off point. I see this with traders who
get their accounts up to a certain amount and each time proceed to give it all
back. Such traders doubt their worthiness to accumulate wealth. Underneath this
thought is the belief that there is not enough to go around. Or that they are
unworthy of more than a certain limited amount--what they consider to be their
fair share because there isn’t enough.
One way to avoid such a personalised limit is
to find a cause you truly care about. Find something larger than yourself and
begin tithing your trading profits to this cause. The more you make, the more
you can give. The more you give, the more you can make.
In talking about an abundance consciousness,
I’m not talking about easy come, easy go. No. That’s the inability to value
wealth and let it grow. A spendthrift doesn’t honour the accumulation of wealth.
Those who divest themselves of their wealth as soon as they get it don’t see
wealth as something good which they deserve.
We need balance. We need to save money and let
money flow. We earn. We save. We spend. We invest. We give. We wisely enjoy our
money even as we make it grow.
With a sense of abundance we invest and we
risk. We can afford to risk—in a calculated and controlled way—because there is
more out there.
There is a need here for balance. It’s
important to value wealth and value opportunity, not squander them. You don’t
want to squander and you don’t want to grasp.
How do you value opportunity? By being alert to
it and by taking advantage of it. By selecting carefully. You don’t want to take
an opportunity that doesn’t exist and you don’t want grab too much of it either.
Nor do you want to treat an opportunity with indifference or casualness. As a
trader, you take trading seriously and you trade consistently knowing that the
rewards can be even greater than you dreamed.
If, however, you do miss a trade or leave a
trade too soon, there’s no need to stress over it. Discover from it and vow to do
better in the future as you sustain a optimistic view of your future abundance.
Now, I know it’s easy to focus on lack and
poverty and homelessness and the genuine suffering in the world and fail to
notice that opportunity is all around us waiting to be discovered and utilised.
But allow me to end this discussion of the
necessity to appreciate the abundance that is there for us by briefly reviewing
this aspect of the Bible story of Adam and Eve in the richly plentiful Garden of
Eden. God had provided for every possible need of Adam and Eve until one day the
serpent beguiled Eve by asking her, "Yea, hath God said, Ye shall not eat of
every tree of the Garden?" Eve replied, "We may eat of the fruit of the trees of
the garden: however of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden,
God hath said, ‘Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it lest ye die.’
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Well, the serpent persuaded Eve to overlook and
forget about the plenty she did have and directed her attention to that one tree
which was forbidden. Despite all the plenty God had given her, she ate the
forbidden fruit and she persuaded Adam to do the same. God threw them out of the
Garden of Eden and kept them from ever re-entering the garden. He cursed the
ground, so that Adam had to struggle outside the garden with thorns and thistles
and to sweat for his bread.
It’s easy to overlook the supply. What one
thing do we know about our supply-- the markets? They are there and will
continue to be there with plenty of movement and possibility. They provide us
with rivers of opportunity. Pay attention to that. Count on it.
Ruth Barrons Roosevelt is a
Trading Psychologist who trades. She has a created a series of audio tape sets
to help traders achieve peak performance states and get out of psychological
slumps. plays these tapes for his own trading. The tapes can be ordered by
calling ADEST in Sydney Australia on + 612 9527-4690.
E-mail questions to Ruth at our contact
page>>
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